Pet Peeve

You know, I really hate it when sommebody makes a character and then they add (and these are just examples) "Has a crush on Jeff", "Laughing Jack has a crush on them", "Is with BEN Drowned", "Is enemies with Eyeless Jack" and then they go "That is sooooooooo Mary-Sue!" or "How can they be together? They aren't in there story!" Um, there is a thing called 'life after the story'. I understand if the character is a Mary-Sue because their story is a rip-off, if they're overly perfect, if they were placed in a character's story when they weren't in the original, or if evrybody is crushing on them. Other than that, they really aren't a Mary-Sue. And people need to understand the difference between a Mary-Sue and a poorly made character. There IS a difference.